THE PERSON
Thank you for asking! My pronouns are she/her/hers.
I’m a creative person at heart. I love dancing, singing, listening to music, and at the moment I’m learning to play guitar. My faith is also very important to me. I attend church most Sundays, and I enjoy volunteering whenever I can.
Some “regulars” in my self-care routine are yoga, journaling, listening to uplifting music, and connecting with family and friends who love me. Sometimes though, taking care of myself just looks like eating a healthy dinner and going to bed early.
One book I recommend is Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff…And It’s All Small Stuff by Richard Carlson. It’s a quick read I came across for the first time while spending a night in an AirBnB. I appreciated its gentle wisdom – in fact, I’m due to read this one again.
THE WORK
My compassion for and interest in people has been lifelong. As the youngest daughter of a pastor, I gained a deep appreciation for the fact that people’s needs go beyond the physical (e.g., food, water, shelter). I cared to know what helps people thrive through difficult circumstances, and I wanted to be a part of pointing others towards the possibility of peace, joy, and life purpose.
I primarily use a cognitive behavioral approach to therapy. Additionally, I value my clients’ identities, cultural background, and strengths. My hope is that my clients leave therapy not just with skills to help them journey through life’s challenges, but with a greater sense of self-compassion and mindfulness.
Some of my favorite moments with clients are when we’re truly working together on whatever the client is going through. The client is in the groove, I’m in the groove, and we’re both in the groove together. I love when we’re able to step back – even for just a second – to share a laugh together. I love that, over the course of therapy, there is almost always at least one moment when the heaviness that’s been brought in is outshined by the lightness that’s there too.
My educational experiences and training have always encouraged me to follow the science. “What does the research say?” is, instinctively, one of the first things I ask myself when faced with a new challenge. In therapy, this means I favor interventions that have been shown to be effective, and I strive to stay informed about approaches that may be helpful for my clients.
THE BIGGER PICTURE
I’m passionate about acknowledging the reality of systemic injustice that makes living a joyful life harder for some than for others, and I’m passionate about making the world of mental health more inclusive.
I wish more people knew that progress in therapy is often non-linear, and that the willingness to keep showing up for oneself (and to sessions!) is a big deal.
I think a holistic view of mental health and mental health care will be more commonplace. How factors such as physical health, community well-being and positive representation, and financial security impact mental health and vice versa will be more clearly understood by everyone. I also think it would be cool if outdoor therapy became a thing!
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